DIS-ease:
love and hate,
in both the cases one cannot be at ease. Someone who appears to be in love becomes tired, exhausted, bored by the ordinary things, and seems to be mad – just as in hates.
Both are tensions, both are disease.
One may only be at ease if there is nothing inside, neither love nor hate. Then one may stay in the self, alone in consciousness, only in centered!
CALM state!
en-JOY!